You exist outside of the constructed confines of a binary; so does your love
That’s not to say you should immediately dump a partner who doesn’t know what your gender means! Not everyone knows what it means to be non-binary, gender nonconforming, demigender, agender, gender fluid, et cetera. And of course, no one knows exactly how you identify until you share it.
Sometimes, it is worth explaining to a loved one. They might be confused or unsure at first. (more…)